原來,遺忘是在不知不覺中.

具有 “批判性思考” 能力的人會覺得:

¬我不喜歡電視上脫口秀那些人，只是說出他們的意見卻不說為什麼。

¬察覺人家說的話背後真正的意義對我來說是很重要的。

¬如果要我去做需要靠我自己思考才能做到的工作，我通常會做的比別人好。

¬我不輕易做決定，直到完全想清楚我自己的想法。

¬與其依賴別人的筆記，我寧願自己去讀原始資料。

¬即使我事後可能會拒絕對方的意見，我仍舊會去思考對方意見中的優點。

¬即使問題比我預期中的嚴重，我還是會努力去完成它。

¬做出正確的決策要比贏得爭論來的重要。

     

而 “批判性思考” 能力較弱的人則可能會覺得:

¬我喜歡我的老闆直接告訴我該做什麼以及如何去做。

¬不管問題有多複雜，你永遠都可以找到一個簡當的方法去解決它。

¬我不想花時間去研究事情的細節。

¬我不喜歡課堂上和老師討論問題，我寧願老師直接給我們答案。

¬如果我的想法確定是正確的，那別人的想法為什麼錯就沒有什麼關係了。

¬向別人介紹你的想法就好像在賣車，不管你說什麼都會

以下希望我時時注意自己，時時警惕：鴻海董事長 郭台銘的話 一、如果
（1）妳只是接電話，告訴客戶不知道、沒辦法。
（2）妳只是開訂單，不連絡、不追蹤，有問題不回報、不處理。
（3）妳只是打報表，不確定數字正確性。
（4）妳只是接電話，從未希望客戶有滿意的感覺、從未希望客戶多訂一些貨。
（5）妳只是認為自己是助理，從未想過自己一言一行代表業務、主管、老闆、公司。 那麼，妳不夠格做一個稱職的助理，妳的工作，任何人都可以取代  二、如果
（1）你從未將部門業績目標時時刻刻放在心中。
（2）你從未想過個人目標攸關部門目標達成。
（3）送樣後，從未想過結果如何，為什麼沒消息。
（4）報價後，從未追蹤為什麼沒有訂單，差多少可以成交。
（5）訂單多了，從未去想怎麼回事，隨波逐流、隨客戶起舞。
（6）訂單少了，不去追查什麼原因，毫無感覺、毫無動作。
（7）你從未想過在客戶面前更專業、更守信。
（8）工作不規劃、時間不管理、成本不控制、客戶不教育。
（9）你認為開發新客戶、新市場是麻煩的、痛苦的。 那麼，你不夠格做一個稱職的業務人員，你在是我們大家的負擔。  三、如果
（1）你不把客戶需求當作是非常的重要。
（2）你不把客戶抱怨當作優先解決的事項，主動追查檢討。
（3）你時常不準時送貨，當作客戶永遠都會等你。
（4）業務反應客戶的問題，你嫌他煩。
（5）客戶反應品質的問題，你嫌他挑剔，視他為爛客戶。
（6）你經常把〝很麻煩〞、〝有困難〞、〝不想做〞、〝不可能〞掛在嘴邊。
（7）你每天上班當作例行工作，不主動尋找問題、改善品質。 那麼，你不夠格做一個稱職的生產部主管，與你共事，我很疲勞。
每日我們在外努力，沒有良好的品質，沒有良好的服務做後盾，一切效果會打折扣，
對客戶的承諾都會跳票，我們便成口才一流、品質二流、服務三流的公司。  四、如果
（1）有罵沒有稱讚、有懲罰沒有獎勵。
（2）對企業有利的，不立刻行動。
（3）經常把〝再看看〞、〝再研究〞掛在嘴邊。 那麼，我也只能偷偷的說，你不是一個稱職的老闆。我不能多說，畢竟你還是我的老闆。

生命中最最最最x n次方難以沉受， 最不想收到的禮品就是．．．．．．．．．．． 榮．成．禮．籃   是的，就是榮成的．千篇一律的ｔａｔａｗａ產品，餅乾有的沒的，反正相關企業的東西就對了不免讓人想到，會不會是外銷剩下的就用來包禮籃呢這只是題外話，但就像生日收禮物一樣，沒有人想收到十份一模一樣的東西吧？ 我由衷配服榮成的成功和經營但也打自內心的狂嘯：不要再送榮成禮籃了啦～～～照片中只是其中一角，我家每年過節都會收到至少十個榮成禮籃結果都忙著在尾牙送送出去抽奬已經是看到榮成的食品就想吐的地步很想在門口掛個： 〔榮成禮籃勿進〕〔謝絕榮成禮籃〕 可是人家的一番心意畢竟是禮輕情意重還真的是生命最不想沉受的輕

嗯我家紅酒蠻多的．因為都是禮籃里的ｏｒｚ． 便宜和年份輕的紅酒，喝起來酒味刺鼻，口感也沒麼圓滑．于是想起ｓａｎｇｒｉａ， 也用來調酒可以把品質不怎麼優的紅酒變成佳釀呢？ Sangria 是西班牙國民調酒，是每家餐廳每桌必有一壺的Sangria。在西班牙，你到一般的餐廳幾乎是喝不到非西班牙的紅酒，而西班牙的紅酒調起Sangria好像又特別的適合。而Sangria在餐廳消費者才一壺約4～５歐元，便宜卻美好的滋味啊．雖然家里紅酒來自世界各國，就是獨缺西班牙，但也無妨，只要是紅酒就可以用了，不然真的想不到怎麼去消耗它們啊 作法把紅酒到入一個大壺子裡，隨意加入水果像是檸檬、橙、蘋果等，一些高濃度的香甜酒如橘子酒ｒｕｍ或Martini，冰著１～２小時（要直接喝也可以啦）冰過后加入，冰塊，適口味加入一些糖，攪拌一下就是美味的Sangria了.^^ 當然有各種不同版本的,以上是最classic的,但酒精也相對比較高. 如果不想太high的話,把rum/martini改成sprite也可以. 誠意推薦

1. Bill Gates "My success, part of it certainly, is that I have focused in on a few things."  "I like my job because it involves learning. I like being around smart people who are trying to figure out new things. I like the fact that if people really try they can figure out how to invent things that actually have an impact."  "Success is a lousy teacher. It seduces smart people into thinking they can’t lose."  If you think your teacher is tough, wait until you get a boss. He doesn’t have tenure."

• "Life is not fair; get used to it."

• "Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life has not. In some schools they have abolished failing grades; they’ll give you as many chances as you want to get the right answer. This doesn’t bear the slightest resemblance to anything in real life. Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you find yourself."

• The world won’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something before you feel good about yourself.

• You will not make $40,000 a year right out of high school. You won’t be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.

• "Intellectual property has the shelf life of a banana."
• "In this business, by the time you realise you’re in trouble, it’s too late to save yourself. Unless you’re running scared all the time, you’re gone."
• "Competition is always a fantastic thing, and the computer industry is intensely competitive. Whether it’s Google or Apple or free software, we’ve got some fantastic competitors and it keeps us on our toes."
• Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping - they called it opportunity.
• Television is not real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.
• "Sometimes we do get taken by surprise. For example, when the Internet came along, we had it as a fifth or sixth priority."
• "As I look forward, I’m very optimistic about the things I see ahead. As we look ahead into the next century, leaders will be those who empower others."

• "Your most unhappy customers are your greatest source of learning."
• "There will be ’two societies’ in the future: high-paid knowledge workers and low-paid service workers."
• "There are people who don’t like capitalism, and people who don’t like PCs. But there’s no one who likes the PC who doesn’t like Microsoft. People everywhere love Windows."
• "Every day we’re saying, ’How can we keep this customer happy?’ ’How can we get ahead in innovation by doing this, because if we don’t, somebody else will.’"
• "Kids are taking PCs and the Internet to new heights. They’re the ones that are designing the cutting-edge web sites. They’re the ones that are pushing forth things like digital music, digital photos, instant messaging; and they will take this tool in directions that we don’t even expect."

損失了近四十萬幹心痛心力交粹更心疼白了一頭的雙親失去的錢可以再賺回失去的笑容歲月和健康誰能補給父母親不是永遠的巨人不能不把他們當成自己人生最重要的存在宁可我負天下人也不可以辜負自己的家人經過風風雨雨叛逆的抉擇和失敗再度確認this is my priorityalways will be

如果
連網誌中也不能坦誠的面對自已
那我
還有什麼
是
真實的?

The Road Not Taken　(1916) 　　　　　　　　 
Robert Frost, 1874-1963 　　　　　　　　

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood 
And looked down one as far as I could 
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair, 
And having perhaps the better claim, 
Because it was grassy and wanted wear,
Though as for that, the passing there 
Had worn them really about the same.

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.


另一條沒有走的路，另一個沒能愛的人，都是我們心中的小小遺憾；
人生有點遺憾的美麗是正常的，就像藍藍的水面激起小小漣漪一般悠遠動人。

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我今年25歲. 單身. 皮膚狀況　＝　慘不忍暏

我以為天氣麗質是不用保養的.
至少在20歲之前我從來不知道什麼叫"黑頭/粉刺/毛孔粗大"
青春期時非常感謝上天沒面對青春豆等問題皮膚.
防晒? 那是什麼啊?我天生就白啊．

然后報應來了．

大學時期生活日夜不分，lim teh, 打game, 上網. 一夜不睡之後還是精神百倍地去上課.

往回看看自己過去幾年在不同地方寫的BLOG.　

（是的，我是個喜新厭舊到處留下痕跡的人．從明白報到無名還在用ｂｂｓ注冊時，到ｓｐａｃｅｓ，ｍｅｗｏｒｋｓ，ｂｌｏｇｇｅｒ．．．）

發現自已對工作失去了動力和熱誠. 我主修行銷&CUSTOMER SERVICES, 卻漸漸遺忘how important it is to sell and serve the customer.

I did badly in my job, no doubt. 

I blamed the job for not challenging enough at first.Then the conservative of my dad, and the so called male-dominated engineering field.But at the end I am still the one to be blame. No one can take anything away from you if you are strong enough. 

I am tough and aggressive when i was fresh grad. And i fell hard. Things are getting better recent years, at least no harsh argument during work and i am far away from the crying baby i used to be.

Yet, i lost something so important. 

Taking up responsibility -  since when i start shfiting responsibility? I just pass it down to my juniors as long as i felt the job is too nasty and basically don't need any IQ to do it ( aka : filing,etc)

The sense of Urgency - Yeah, whatever, what does it matter , i can always do it tomorrow........sounds pathenic.

The passion of working - .........................speech less...........

My dad told me, thousands of time, i aint stupid, and i am far beyond that. And that's killing me slowly. I am TOO smart  to bypass and short-cutting the task. And I don't care HOW it was done, as long as i complete the job. But eventually i start overlook and short sighted small matter, which normally create huge disaster at the end. 

And I never feel bad of it. Thick skin? whatever you like to call it.  I embrassed myself for all the stupid mistakes Most of the people knew it. Yet, i am smart enough to get myself out of the shit and i aint proud of that at all.

I am a management  material and i am creative. That's what my college tutor used to comment on me. I guess i screwed myself over and over again.

I am trying to patch bad back part by part what i used to be.  I am who I want to be.  No one can take that from me.  I get distracted easily. Too easy.   I am a bitch when it come to business but get emotional on relationship. Damn, that's the red flag. Anyway, i am officially off-relationship for quite some time and no intention to enlist at least for the next few years. It's just too hard to find a soul-mate.

Conclusion, well, it's auditing and tax seasons and I am battling with tons of bill. I am buying time for my re-surrection.

I  work for 4 years but i still having difficulty to explain to my friends what my company dealing with.

So, basically it's a Engineering company, with factory to manufacture vegetable oil extraction machinery. Meanwhile, we also undertake turnkey project by supplying the whole factory to designed site including civil work. 

The raw material for vegetable oil including : palm kernel (our major product), sunflower seed, canola seed, linseed, rapeseed, coconut, cocoa, etc. 

For the small capacity machinery,  aka 10 ~ 30 TPD (tonnes per day), processing material in SEA (eg, Kernel, Coconut)  are standard unit that we can manufacture anytime upon receipt of order.  ( Standard $15 ~ 25 K per unit)

For the high capacity machinery, aka 100 ~ 500 TPD processing sunflower seed, linseed and major buyer are from Western Country, we are alliance with one of the famous UK ROYAL(?!) accredited Engineer based on Australia. We manufacture the machine design by him, slightly modified to fit different customer's need.  ( basically this 阿伯的脾氣有夠給他那個星星圈圈叉叉的) . Price range betweek $ 150K ~ 300K, and this is the price we sold to the Mr Consultant, from my past experience, hewill mark up at least 60% and sell to the end-user. Well, i guess his 30 years experience and the UK accredited cert made him kinda rich.

.......... bla bla bla bla bla ......

A-
You are one of the most balanced people around
Motivated and focused, you are good at getting what you want
You rule at success, but success doesn't rule you.

When it's playtime, you really know how to kick back
Whether it's hanging out with friends or doing something you love!
You live life to the fullest - incorporating the best of both worlds

剛做一個網上性格測試 do you have a type A personality?

其實測試的大多數人都拿B左右的結果，要麼是B+, B 或是B-，少數人是A-。 我的結果是type A-。 
erm...sounds interesting.